nicole was madly and deeply in loved with chad and chad said he was too with nicole. nicole was expressive and ouitspoken of her emotions for chad unfortunately, chad was sort of reserved and was showing disinterest in the relationship but he was assuring nicole that he does love her. no matter how much nicole tried to absorb in her mind and heart that her man does really love her, she could not feel it inside. nicole kept trying to preserve and hold on to the relationship because she values the time with him, the feelings for him and the relationship with him however, whatever she was feeling inside was not compensated. nicole was born to be a fighter. she told herself that she's going to hold on no matter what happens. until one day, out of the blue, she realized that the relationship was already dying and she feared that it will die a natural death. the gap between them has grown wider and deeper and nicole couldn't help but break down. nicole really loves him and she knew she would still fight for him but she felt that there was no point of battling for him. she felt all alone and no assurance was ever laid for her.
if you were nicole, what will you do? if you were chad, will you remain passive and unmindful of nicole's dilemma? if you were nicole or chad, will you keep the relationship? will you hold on for each other?
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Letting somebody expect for something and yet such fails due to your own irresponsibility is a crime I considered because you are slashing that someone’s heart… Chad in this story is not quiet and reserve as you described him but a COWARD. He’s not sure of his feeling or may be something/someone bothered him to love Nicole but he can’t tell it directly for he doesn’t want to hurt her. Still, such act is cowardness.
If I were him, I have to be honest of admitting what I feel deep inside toward Nicole. I would be frank of telling her that I couldn’t reciprocate the love she has to me because of these and those. Unless he is a philander...
i guess so prince...and you are right but maybe somebody would also like to speak for chad???let's give a room for chad to speak out...let his voice clear this issue...right prince???but to be fair with nicole, chad needs to make things black and white between him and nicole...
i'd like to be brave and comment on this..
i can relate...and i understood how nicole and chad would feel.
nicole is a female and typically females are expressive and demands reciprocation of what they feel however innately chad is a male and he usually would act than talk.
i am... lost on what to say... because inspite of being a female and being expressive i cannot add more on this...
simply because i am afraid...
that ...
i am nicole...
sad noh?
im here again...trying to think this very cute trivia is not really a trivial matter...
i believe in the differences between the male and the female's approach to relationship, however i would love to see men who knows how to talk more and women who would listen more especially in a relationship.
but come to think of it... hearing those painful words does not lessen the pain that reality presents itself to you.
nicole would like to hold on to the relationship because i believe that she is thinking of how much she has invested into it... the affections, the time, the effort of starting up and keeping up with the the constant change that keeps on trickling into both of their lives...
small changes that she belives would create a gigantic rift if left out and not memded soon...
if i will be allowed to talk to chad.. i just would say that if he values Nicole he better talk more with Nicole and see that he needs to do more is he wants to keep Nicole simply because he loves her...
Nicole can hold on... but not for eternity...
@ Chaesa: I may be biased of judging the relationship between Nicole and Chad but I am more interested to share something about Chaesa’s sentiments since she had related to this trivia.
I know how sincere you are in a relationship but I pity you in your situation (if ever you have same story with Nicole) because I believe that with this scenario, you are a victim of unrequited love. We males have firm decision to everything that we are involving with. If we want something or someone to this matter, no one can stop us. We know how to escape away from hindrances without hurting anyone or at least without causing severe hurt… I guess Chad had watched or still watching the Serye “Agua Vendetta” and he had seen how Marcial handled his situation toward his mother in law. I don’t wanna delve on this but the main point is, if you LOVE your girlfriend you don’t have to let her suffer emotionally by letting her to expect for something from you. He has to CLOSE the relationship HIMSELF if he cannot stand on it. Don’t let the girl to make the first closure. Nicole for example, cannot do the first move since she is still expecting that MAYBE Chad still loves her.
Aynaku Nicole! Personal advice ko nalang, don’t end your life to that guy if he cannot make it. You need to get away from the hell you are in now. Mag abroad ka nalang to make your life more worthy. The same advice goes to TERE.
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