Thursday, March 5, 2009

Life: a matter of chance or choice?



Is life a matter of choice or chance? Is it a decision or destiny? All at once, we know just what to answer. And we are too good at justifying things. We give our reasons but which reasons are sometimes not reasonable enough. Or maybe sometimes, we give reasons which “reasons” itself does not know. We answer hypothetically, mathematically, theoretically, biblically and sometimes even ridiculously! We know, deep in our hearts the real answer to this question. However we allow ourselves to be influenced by our thoughts, our experiences, our beliefs and our ideals!
Observe how one of my students, a mechanical engineering student named Harold Rotor, answered this question in an essay i asked them to submit in my reading class. He wrote and I quote:

“Life is not a matter of chance but a matter of choice. It is the effect of what we did in the past. Destiny maybe compared to the algebraic equation Y=CX. Destiny is not constant (C). It is the Y or the independent variable. Y depends on the X, where X is the input. When X is small, the Y will also give a small value and when the X is big then Y will also give a big value.
The value of Y may also be positive or negative. When x is negative the Y will also turn out to be negative and when the X is positive the Y will also turn out to be positive. The principle is the same with destiny. The result maybe big or less, good or bad depending on our input. It may always necessarily be instant but surely it will happen as it should be.
Life on the other hand is a condition or course of living. Our existence in this world is life itself. A person is said to have a life when he/she still has the capacity to breathe.”

Mr. Rotor asserts that life and destiny are interrelated. Destiny is how we live our life. His life and destiny lies entirely on him. He believes that there is a God who has the authority in every individual, as well as believes that God gave us the freewill. He gave us the mind to decide on our own. God’s authority is like the traffic enforcer. He gives us the right way and the right timing but it depends on us whether we follow directions or not. But most often than not, human as we are, we tend to disobey traffic rules and so as disobey God. But then again HE is still there to watch over us. HE may sometimes use methods that we think are incomprehensible to human thoughts but surely God does not do anything that would totally harm us. HE always has the purpose for everything. We just have to follow the right direction, that is, wait for the right time and the right way to go.


Here's what I got from this site on what destiny is all about: http://www.akgupta.com/Thoughts/destiny.htm

"One of the greatest and everlasting debates of humanity has been about the role of destiny in the lives of human beings. There was a time when it was almost an accepted fact of life that each and every event was governed by destiny of human beings. Astrology was considered a science. Then with the advent of modern times the importance of role of destiny as a concept started losing weight. Today, belief in destiny is considered a superstition by majority of people. And rightly so, since there seems to be no evidence for the irrevocability of destiny.

There are three schools of thoughts about fate. The most prevalent these days seems to be the one which says that there is nothing called destiny or fate. This line of thinking says that human beings do possess free will. All our successes, failures and actions are governed by the decisions we take. If we take correct decisions and act accordingly, no one can prevent us from achieving what we want to. If we fail, it must be due to something wrong on our part. We have the option to take decisions using our free will. In this line of thinking, fate is considered a superstition at worst and at best one can regard it as a psychological defense system to cope with the failures in life. Whenever you fail in some endeavor or whenever something happens which is not in accordance of your wish, you use it as a convenient scapegoat. You say, it was your bad luck which caused you to fail. Otherwise, how could you fail? You are never ready to accept that it was you who was responsible for the failure. It may have been due to some bad planning, lack of efforts in the right direction or outright failure to correctly judge the realities of your goal. But since it hurts to accept that you were the one who committed the mistake, you take shelter behind the concept of fate and blame it on your karma. This relieves you of the terrible pain of knowing and accepting the defeat."

Well, what then is life to you? A choice? a chance? a destiny? fate? Whatever your answer to that question is, let us reflect to the ultimate truth, the Bible, which provides a wonderful promise and assurance about God's beautiful purpose and plans for our life. His plans are great. He plans a good future ahead of us... He tells us that our existence has a purpose but it's all up to us how to make this purpose in us be realized. His Word says, (in GOD'S WORD® Translation (©1995)"I know the plans that I have for you," declares the LORD. "They are plans for peace and not disaster, plans to give you a future filled with hope."

Then, Let's choose to hope in HIM, for nothing compares to a future filled with hope. It is said that "Life with Christ is an endless hope, without HIM , a hopeless end..."(anonymous)

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

A choice? A chance? A Destiny? A Faith?

Here's what i say, everything is controlled by one entity and that would be Jesus and his DAD... and that HE will never leave a single soul on its own. For He never fails to remember us, his little creations. He is always there to remind us that He WILL always be there and that those failures are just quizzes, exams, and homework's. He just wants our attention cause we make all kinds of excuses to avoid him so he gives us fails to tell us "You can't do it alone and that i care so i punish you with this to get your attention and that to tell you that you have forgotten me again and that I wish you would keep talking & putting your fate in me more often than that of those earthly ideas." Also YES GOD gave us the free will to do anything we pls. cause he already knows what we do even before we ask or think of it we may not know what that is. But there is one thing that will surely be GOD GAVE MAN THE CHOICE TO PICK, IF WE WANT TO GO WITH HIM OR NOT. So everything is really up to GOD if we would accept his SON or not. That's our only choice... the rest is up to him and that HE is the one who CONTROLS TIME AND SPACE.

I typed this with my own words as if I AM actually talking to you...?! Must be because GOD notice I am being busy on him and that I am doing unnecessary things that does not PLS. HIM at all... Even if it seems to be a small problem. May be his REPRIMANDING ME AT ANY SIN THAT MIGHT MISS LEAD ME LIKE LAST TIME... But I know HE CARES... even if me bad... Meow!!!

-Araneta,Sivyl C.

Kenneth Danzig Z. edrozo said...

For me,life is just a matter of choices.... our act/move will always be the tree of what will happen in the future, and the fruit is the bad
and the good outcomes...
=Kenneth Danzig Z. Edrozo=

Anonymous said...

"LIFE: a matter of chance or choice?"

BUTCH JAY ABOGAA
BSN - 1

LIFE Is always about choices. we are here now because we made the choice to be here. we may not realized this. but in our life, we have already been through thousands and thousands of choices. think about it. what time we wake up each morning, what do we have for breakfast,what clothes to wear for work, what time to leave home,they are all choices aren't they?

now we see. Life is an ever-going cycle. There is not a moment when time would ever stop and each day will just passes by, following by another new day and this will go on and on. Perhaps it has become such a routine for us that having to make all these daily decision become just a habit to us, something that we need not to worry about, each day passes by just smoothly. But then again, there were times when days don't seem that smooth? Days when we feel unhappy and maybe even stressed? Or perhaps at this very moment, we are just feeling so, going through stress and unhappiness?Why would this be so? Why are we actually feeling so now? Because we meet some problem, at a loss for what we should do?
No doubts, this is precisely what is happening. we are now faced with a new problem that is out of our daily habits. we are forced to make a choice over something not familiar to us but which we know would do a certain extent affect our life.
let's face it! that everything we do is always from what we choose. no doubt that sometimes we would be lost once in a while. At the end of the day what matters is that we must not be lost forever. Understand the way of life, stay in rhythm with the nature. When we have to make a choice, we just have to.

Anonymous said...

for me life is a choice,a choice because God allows us to what path are we going to cross but he will guide us.A choice that will makes who we are.

RAchel Ann T. Alcala
BSN-2

Anonymous said...

for me life is a chance because this life is a borrowed time.A time that God wants us to enjoy and experience life.We are lucky because had chosen us.

Cheiney Sydell O. Ebdao
BSN-2